Trustworthy Environment In Fruitful Relationships

By Jeffrey Jones


Departing after wedding being in relationship for several years is the most unpleasant thing in existence. There are many reasons behind this. When marriages are arranged by parents we tend to choose a life partner who we do not love. This results in quarrel and disagreement at later stage. Marriage therapist has conducted extensive research to predict divorce warning signs.

The powerful emotion humans can experience is love. Partners do not think deep about affection when there is a continuous giving and receiving from each another. Only when there is something lacking in relationships people ponder. But by the time they realize it becomes too late to save the relationship.

There will be ego clashes between the parents of both families which tend to aggravate problems. Most often the people from poor or lower class families might be narrow minded in maintaining relationships with opposite side, whereas upper class will follow a broad minded attitude. This creates problems inside the family when both the couples are from different classes which can lead to divorce.

Domestic violence is another important reason for the relationships to break. One of the couple might adjust a lot to maintain the bond in marriage. Only when the aggression or the torture starts people look for ending the relationship as a last resort. Understanding in relation should not be one way, it should be from both sides.

Violence in families creates criminal tendencies in children, which can affect them in afterward. This also encourage anger, disobedience, fear, not studying, suicides, sexual abusing of friends, which later can take them to prison. Depression, anxiety and other mental stress or disorders are part and parcel of impact of violence and divorce in families.

Poverty and unemployment is one of the greatest problems among all the countries. Rich are getting richer day by day and the poor are left to suffer. They main reason if the society and government does not give them job as they are not educated. There is lot of professions like working in gas stations or stores and secure their life.

Couples married at younger age can come in the prospective divorce list. People who have wedded early might think that exposure or experience received by them compared to others is less and want different things now. Even coping up with children at young age makes them irritable and tensed.

The divorce without a mutual consent where one partner opposes for separation. The reasons coming under this are cruelty, mental disorder, communicable disease, adultery, desertion etc. Also court and lawyer charges are involved in it which should be paid by both parties. This type of cases require huge amount of settlement.

Both parties should be willing to adjust for a compromise. Blaming does not give any benefit to any person. Forgiving is a good medicine to help a relationship. Both people need to pardon and let go off the complexes. When all these things are done a relationship can be saved from a divorce.




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