Jewish Christian Interfaith Wedding To Make Your Guests Say L'chaim Not L'ame

By Robert Taylor


It is a wonderful thing when two big groups of people who practice different faiths and maybe come from completely different places in the world can come together and celebrate as one. A Jewish Christian interfaith wedding, also known as mixed or co-officiated weddings, can sometimes be difficult things to coordinate because of the different customs that can sometimes come clashing together. With the right information, you can make everybody comfortable and make it a wonderful experience for everyone.

It is important for everybody who attends the ceremony to feel that they are given the dignity and respect that they deserve. Therefore, it is essential that some of their most important customs are held. This can be done by seeing which customs overlap in the two faiths and applying the use of them wherever possible.

It is a magical thing when two people come together as one in a sacred ceremony of union. The Unity Candle is something that is used a lot to symbolize this act and can help remind all the people who are involved in it that not only are two human beings coming together as one but so too are their families. Candles are often used in religious ceremonies.

Oftentimes in any marriage, you will see and hear a pronouncement being made by someone, usually the one who is officiating the ceremony. The purpose of this is to announce who is getting married at this particular ceremony and how God is overseeing it. This is not always used in every religious denomination but is widely accepted.

Christians commonly practice something where the congregation of the ceremony is asked if everyone there supports what the couple is doing. Although not all other faiths do this, many can relate to it. The family of the other person will have the belief that witnesses are needed for this kind of thing.

Some religions speak their vows in their original language and are very sacred about them. However, most people nowadays are ready to accept people practicing the common way of speaking vows. This is one of the most well-known parts of these events.

Even though some things may not have been in the strictest of Christians' traditions, they still may be willing to accept them, especially if they have been introduced to them via pop culture. A lot of people know about breaking the glass. While it takes proper precautions to do this safely, it can be a valuable experience when you are uniting with another person.

It is a wonderful thing when you can use something that is an ancient tradition for one group of people and tweak it slightly so that it pleases everybody there, even if they are of different faiths. The ketubah is something that many people have used for a very long time, and even if people of different faiths are being wedded, this is still often used. By making the words in it specifically apply to the people who are involved, it will be a great experience for everybody.




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