An Honest Take On Self Help

By Evan Sanders


If we decide to finally let go of what we think we need to be, we give ourselves the chance to become who we were meant to be.

The society we have grown up in has taught us this story that we should be much more than we are comfortable in being.

There are stories about our bodies, relationships, the look we have, the lifestyle we lead and just about everything else in the book that you could possibly imagine.

These stories are designed to tell us one thing - we aren't good enough the way we are an we should be living a completely different way.

But the truth is, we all have unbelievable gifts that give us the ability to create something in this world. Unfortunately, those gifts get covered up time and time again by the stories we are all led to believe.

It's a hell of a lot easier to be who you are instead of always trying to be someone else.

That may sound counterintuitive, but once you drop all of the nonsense that has been fed to you throughout your entire life you end up being pretty happy with yourself as a person. This doesn't mean that you don't have areas to grow - we all do - but rather it's a strong vote for how unique we all are.

In truth, that's the only way that lasting and sustainable change occurs.

And that everlasting change will help you achieve your goals because you will start to really believe in what you're doing.

Every single day you will be challenged if you're living this way but that's the point. You have to be willing to put it all on the table and come back daily willing to work hard no matter the challenges ahead.

So do it for yourself. Do it because you want to truly get to know the real you.

Love and appreciate the things, people, and life that you have right now.

Have faith in where you are at and if you want something different for yourself, go out there and create it.

Dive into it because it's something that you want to do and it's something that will make you incredibly proud. That's a life that you can be happy about.

So go for it. You are capable of more than you could ever imagine.




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