"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why do we get so scared when we have to let go of something?
Because we don't think we will find something better.
We believe somewhere deep down that what we had is "it" for us and that we won't be able to find something that replaces what once was.
However, when you really think about it, our lives are a perfect representation of one thing ending and another thing coming into the picture. Every single time you experience a painful ending it creates something completely new.
This is absolutely true in relationships. Many times you have to walk away from someone and the pain feels unending. But the reality is that there was probably someone before that person who you had to heal from as well.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if the relationship you get into ends...another will come after that.
And again...
Until one day, someone will come into your life who refuses to walk away from you.They will want you and do anything to keep you. They will prove to you just how much they love you and you will love them right back.
That will be an incredible day.
So until that day, you have to keep to your faith and understand that life is a grand series of challenges and victories for those who really decide to live.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
While these lessons and challenges can be incredibly difficult, they help you grow into a person who can take on life's greatest challenges one step at a time.
If you let your life just become one big lesson, you will constantly learn and never have to worry about always getting it right.
Instead, you'll continue blooming.
Always trust your path.
Why do we get so scared when we have to let go of something?
Because we don't think we will find something better.
We believe somewhere deep down that what we had is "it" for us and that we won't be able to find something that replaces what once was.
However, when you really think about it, our lives are a perfect representation of one thing ending and another thing coming into the picture. Every single time you experience a painful ending it creates something completely new.
This is absolutely true in relationships. Many times you have to walk away from someone and the pain feels unending. But the reality is that there was probably someone before that person who you had to heal from as well.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if the relationship you get into ends...another will come after that.
And again...
Until one day, someone will come into your life who refuses to walk away from you.They will want you and do anything to keep you. They will prove to you just how much they love you and you will love them right back.
That will be an incredible day.
So until that day, you have to keep to your faith and understand that life is a grand series of challenges and victories for those who really decide to live.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
While these lessons and challenges can be incredibly difficult, they help you grow into a person who can take on life's greatest challenges one step at a time.
If you let your life just become one big lesson, you will constantly learn and never have to worry about always getting it right.
Instead, you'll continue blooming.
Always trust your path.
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