In a modern day and age that is littered with unlimited choice, cherish those who go hard for you. Commitment, amongst many other things, is a very rare characteristic.
We are so afraid to commit because we don't want to put ourselves on the line and screw it up. We don't want to make ourselves look stupid and do the wrong thing.
So instead, we swim in choice. We swim in all of the choice that is our world today and unfortunately it doesn't really do us any good.
And all of this choice becomes paralyzing in its own way. All of these options create chaos in our mind.
It's the rarest thing these days to see people go hard for their dreams or for other people.
But for a mass amount of people...they don't choose this path because they don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to do the wrong thing and step on anyones toes. They don't want to make waves and be impolite.
And yet, by playing it safe...
They avoid getting hurt...
But also prevent themselves from being everything and anything they could have been if they really had actually dove headfirst into what they always dreamed of. They stop themselves from looking bad, but they never get to see the light of what they could have been.
Most only realize that until it's too late. Way too late.
So you have to actually go for what you want and dive in head first even if there's a big chance it won't work out.
Because if you don't, you will spend the rest of your life regretting the fact that you never actually took the chances you were meant to take.
And if it does finally work out for you, you get to experience what it's like to have truly believed in something and really gone for it.
And that...is priceless.
We are so afraid to commit because we don't want to put ourselves on the line and screw it up. We don't want to make ourselves look stupid and do the wrong thing.
So instead, we swim in choice. We swim in all of the choice that is our world today and unfortunately it doesn't really do us any good.
And all of this choice becomes paralyzing in its own way. All of these options create chaos in our mind.
It's the rarest thing these days to see people go hard for their dreams or for other people.
But for a mass amount of people...they don't choose this path because they don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to do the wrong thing and step on anyones toes. They don't want to make waves and be impolite.
And yet, by playing it safe...
They avoid getting hurt...
But also prevent themselves from being everything and anything they could have been if they really had actually dove headfirst into what they always dreamed of. They stop themselves from looking bad, but they never get to see the light of what they could have been.
Most only realize that until it's too late. Way too late.
So you have to actually go for what you want and dive in head first even if there's a big chance it won't work out.
Because if you don't, you will spend the rest of your life regretting the fact that you never actually took the chances you were meant to take.
And if it does finally work out for you, you get to experience what it's like to have truly believed in something and really gone for it.
And that...is priceless.
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